Why do some men want to remain single despite the fact that many women want to have a romantic relationship with them?

Apparently, girls have it made way better than guys when it comes to potential relationships? But idk, as a girl in my experience, idk if I agree because I can’t seem to keep a guy interested, or to ask me out and actually TAKE me out. And I’m not ugly or anything like that lol it’s just something that doesn’t happen much. Guys do get interested but they never seem serious?

Guys have told me that it’s really hard for guys to get girls to go out with them, let alone be in a committed relationship with them, and not have some weird drama about an ex bf, her kids, or she’s not plain psycho. Yet it’s super easy for girls to be asked out by guys. My brother was a handsome guy so a lot of girls called him hot. Yuck! So he never had trouble getting dates and having a girlfriend. But I’ve heard from guys who were more average looking or not as charming say this about themselve, how hard it was to get a girl.

Something here is broken?

What does success really mean to you? Is it about happiness, money, or something else?

So it’s like, am I missing something? How does bad men get the girl but the good guys don’t?

From hearing the conversations among the guys at my job and, in some ways, I think some of it is lack of maturity on the guy’s part but I think Most of the time is that girls play a ton of games with them. A lot of the bits and peices I hear are pretty similar to the relationship dynamics you would find on paternity court tv.

And then you have those women/girls who are treated like crap from guys and these guys seem to have all the girls they want and more.

Why are white men so obsessed with Asian women? I'm friends with people from all different backgrounds but I never see my other non-white male friends obsess over or talk about Asian women like I've seen the white ones do.